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when we reach in our 20s we try to rationalize every decision for example like i should not behave like this or that i am not that type of person, not realizing that our thinking can be faulty and cause life long drift in direction.don't attach with any identity if it will not benefit you, like i am not the person who goes into religious and political rant bcz these are just draining my energy until i am not in that politics or religious field. but on the other hand i make identity of me like i am the person who hardworking , work autonomously bcz i have good habit..
now i realised that after studying little i can get cgpa more than my peers, till now i understand college studies like shit totally not giving a damn fuck. now i realized even 5 hour focused study can get me good cgpa for the entire sem. so i have to study discret maths, operating system, java ( that i am doing more seroiusly bcz i am stuing dsa), computer networks, computer organization and architecture, and other assignment shit ehich i dont like... so quickly i will complete this maths and operating system first then go on next... coa then the whole dsa and java...
let's say you solve all your dating and women problem, like dating, sex and anything related to women, this doesn't mean you solved all you life problem no women can solve your working hard, lifting heavy weight , facing fear on mountain, fear anything this is totally different thing. so i give advice to me is jsut play this game and quickly back to your life and making yourself better and winner.

Future Cool idea to build :-

The “Shredding Alarm Clock” is a quirky, motivational device designed to punish snoozing. It functions like a normal alarm clock, but with a twist: when the alarm goes off, you must turn it off within a set time, or a small motorized shredder destroys whatever is placed your real money . The device combines an alarm system, a motorized shredder, and a microcontroller to enforce punctuality in a fun and slightly mischievous way. It’s a playful reminder that procrastination—or oversleeping—can come at a cost!
Tynan Notes on Friendship

How To Make Amazing Friends

  • Value friendships: They bring more joy than careers or possessions.
  • Be excellent: Improve yourself, know your worth, be a friend others feel lucky to have.
  • Be intentional: Identify traits you want in friends and choose carefully.
  • Prioritize time: Spend it with people who help you grow; better alone than with the wrong people.
  • Be patient: Building a strong friend group takes time and gradual introductions.
  • Contribute positively: Actively improve your friends’ lives whenever possible.
How To Make Lots of Great Friends
  • Value people: Friends and family are the most important source of gratitude.
  • Don’t be annoying: Self-awareness is key; eliminate habits that push people away.
  • Leverage introductions: Trust is involved when someone introduces you—make them look good.
  • Bring value: Contribute positively to friends’ lives (humor, listening, advice, organizing).
  • Be proactive: Friendship shouldn’t be left to chance; engage, introspect, and actively improve your social life.
Making Friends with Awesome People
  • Friend circles matter: Being proactive about building a great friend group is crucial.
  • Understand sought-after people: Popular or well-connected people are cautious—time with them is limited and valuable.
  • Provide value & be unneedy: Ensure they enjoy your company, don’t impose, and avoid asking for favors.
  • Be a connector: Introduce new people to your existing friends; it multiplies social opportunities.
  • Meet people in person: Hanging out where your desired friends already are is more effective than cold emailing.
  • Focus on quality, not fame: Build friendships for shared values and connection, not prestige or personal gain
Treating Strangers Like Friends
  • Treat everyone like a friend: Engage strangers genuinely, listen, and respond as if they’re real people.
  • Simple habits matter: Small gestures (like asking questions, sharing a bit of yourself) create meaningful connections.
  • Technology can reduce substance: Personal, thoughtful interactions matter more than scripted or surface-level communication.
  • Mutual benefit: Treating others well feels good and often encourages reciprocal kindness
  • Friends vs strangers: People are willing to go further for friends; treating strangers warmly can sometimes elevate them to friend-like status.
  • Real-world examples: Genuine friendliness leads to unexpected favors, opportunities, and deeper connections.
  • Real-world examples: Genuine friendliness leads to unexpected favors, opportunities, and deeper connections.
  • Happiness formula: Being human and kind fosters connection and increases personal joy.
Have Less Acquaintances, More Friends
  • Prioritize quality over quantity: Cutting back on socializing and acquaintances allows more focus on truly meaningful friendships.
  • Acquaintances aren’t free: Time spent with shallow connections reduces energy and time for potential or existing deep friendships.
  • Prune the noise: Reducing superficial interactions clarifies patterns in the friends you truly value.
  • Patterns in great friends: Good people: Positive, noble, inspiring actions; Optimistic mindset: Resilient and forward-looking even in adversity; Ambitious/entrepreneurial: Many have intentionally chosen impactful careers or ventures.
  • Use patterns for screening: Focus energy on people who fit these traits, and limit time with those who don’t.
  • Outcome: Fewer acquaintances, stronger connections, and friendships that inspire growth.
lesson from Islam Makhachev -
  • If you want other to respect you, you have to respect others first.
  • Never lie to yourself about your current skill level.
  • Have strong values and stand up for your values.
  • It’s always best to let the result do the talking.
i was on some women forum on reddit and i also generally observed women saying like “ i want a guy, here is my list - i think that guy that checks all ticks in my list ( for e.g. 6 ft tall, muscular , rich, jawline , fairness, etc all the bullshit you heard of commonly ” but on the contrary i think it is exactly same you go to buying stuff like suppose i want to buy powerful pc and in my list i want feature like ryzen 5, 16gb ram, 4k monitor , vertical and horizontal, logitech mouse, keychron Q1 max mechanical keyboard - if all the stuff matches my list i will buy same like women selects men.
so a what man can do is just live- invert the game , not get played by women, what i do is whenever i think that she is finding guy who is on her to-do list i just calmly remove from my mind entirely, no hate. be aware even if you checks all of her list don't go for her, it's not worth your time and happiness and peace. it's a list for using stuff like you will use pc exactly same as women use men. don't get confused with love. True love needs no editing — it embraces the soul exactly as it is. - Bhagvat Gita. always think of in abundance if that is not then move there are many women.. peace off..if you’re reading this don’t make mistake of that i don’t able to get girls/women that’s why i am writing bitterly against women, i have/had many experiences than you…
no amount of money, fame, product can bring you peace if you don't able to beat resistance that limiting your potential. no matter there is about porn addiction or study 4 hour per day for 5 years. until resistance beat you, you're just living external thing losing yourself just for attention and praise.keep youself alive by chasing best of you from yesterday you was. best analogy is "man is rock and sculptor of himself". by the way others around you are all still just silly child, just avoid them...
i love how people simply play games without knowing, trying to dominate and manipulate - don't give fuck just move on or play better games or better manipulative tactics and be dominant. that's why like machiavelli..
Until you go till the extreme, you can’t find balance. before is the path of moderation and mediocrity. like buddha find middle path when he goes to the extreme like after living luxury to till death asceticism and hence concluded with "the middle path"
situation i laugh on - today i not go to college just because i do not have pants for outing/college - i have 2 pants only and both in laundary. i have one extra pant but it is skinny as fuck that looks cringy on peak.